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2017 we were in marvelous Bari traveling with our Swedish friends. Experience told me that when traveling with them the minute our friend Bo gets hungry we have to eat. We were on a pier, he was starving and he spotted a tiny, whole in the wall restaurant with maybe 4 tables, a wonderful gritty place, friendly bar man, we asked for a menu, ridiculous, there was none they had fried calamari and spaghetti with red sauce, that was it and that was all it needed to be. The spaghetti was amazing with an intense tomato flavor only those hot Italian nights in Italy can give a tomato but the calamari, one of our favorite fish, was unlike any we had ever had. So light they could drift like a cloud, as we bit into them a burst of intensive calamari taste from the sea, crisp and so tender our teeth barely needed to bite through. Immediately a 2nd order was requested. This is the beauty of eating in Italy you never know, it simply happens and you never forget. Susanne

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There is nothing better than a plate of freshly fried calamari when they are done right, especially when enjoyed at a hole in the wall. Supreme.

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Many years ago were on one of our first trips to Italy - in the fall. We were staying in Firenze in a B&B at #1 Corso. Early one Sunday morning we decided to take our rental car to visit Sienna - a first for both of us.

We took the backroads. The weather was beautiful and the beauty of the Chianti countryside was intoxicating. My poor Italian was practically non-existent back then. I kept seeing little billboards for La Fattoria. I looked it up in my Italian dictionary - a farm house. We were driving a narrow winding road and suddenly there was a big sign at the top of a rise and behind it was a big sprawling barn of a building. The road curled around the building and headed down the hill which also brought us down wind and the incredible aromas flooded in our open windows. I shouted, “Stop!” I suddenly knew to my marrow what ‘La Fattoria’ truly meant.

The grassy parking area nuzzled up almost into the rows of vines stretching away, all heavily laden with the black black berries of uva.

We walked to the front and were met with a large stark empty gray foyer with stone pavers centered with large fireplace. There was a small fire and above that heat at a discreet distance was a grate with a dozen big fat porcini caps slowly grilling. In the hearth below was a small old chipped terra-cotta bowl half filled with green tinted olive oil and soaking in the oils was a big bundle of thyme tied with brown twine. I felt a small tremor.

A nice young woman burst into the foyer and quickly determined we had no reservation and proceeded to usher us into a cavernous dining room, almost empty. It was early - late morning but I was a little worried. I’d worked in restaurants all through college and knew that many empty tables might not bode well. She ushered on to the patio - but patio is a small word for the nearly plaza sized dining area filled with tables and people.

She led us to a table.

I’ve had many meals in Italy and in Italian restaurants, some might well have been finer, but this one early meal has been my Ur, my alpha, my enravishment - fresh grilled porcini, fresh wine, my first porchetta, a pasta, insalata verde,my first pan cotto.

There were a dozen looong tables with multi-generation families adoring their babies and toddlers. Every once in a while a bit if fall wind would blow and stir up the fires of the grilles where the mamas and grandmas were working their magic. We never got to Sienna that day.

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I can smell the fresh olive oil, those porcini grilling. Hillside towns and the countryside across Italy are permeated with the aroma of smoke and grill fire in fall. There's nothing like it. A memory to savory forever, Mitch. It was at a place like that where I first tasted ribollita many years ago--I was still a teenager and it has stuck with me since.

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Fall of 2016. On a wing & a prayer, we found my grandmother's family in the Pescara region of Abruzzo. It all began with a return address on untranslated letters to her from the 1960s/70s, a couple of photos from my grandparents' trip back to Italy in the 1970s & one very special couple who owned the Agriturismo where we stayed who helped us with our limited Italian. We spent four glorious days visiting & getting to know the family I never knew I had - but they knew of me, since they brought out childhood photos of my sister & I that my grandmother must have sent to their parents so many years ago. Everyone wanted to get together on our last night & our Agriturismo hosts offered their large kitchen-equipped basement. We didn't quite know what to expect, but they told us to just go touring during the day, they would take care of everything. When we returned, there were about 25 people altogether, all ages from 12 to 85. The tables had been pushed together & were spilling over with food that everyone brought: antipasti, pastas, vegetables, pastries - all family-prepared & thrilled at the opportunity to explain their dishes! At one point, everyone started spilling outside where a few of the guys were preparing arrosticini and we all brought them back in, hot off the grill. Our Agriturismo host helped me translate a toast, which I still don't know how I got through. I can't remember all that we ate that evening, but the room was overflowing with love, newly kindled family ties & that memory will remain with me until the day I die. In the 5+ years since, there have been births, weddings, funerals - & we've been included in one way or another with everything.

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What a story and what a memory, Karen. I know of others who have looked for family in Abruzzo and who have gotten the same all-encompassing welcome and treatment. Such generous big-hearted people.

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Truly wonderful, Domenica!

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Ciao Domenica I remember as a kid my mom and dad making polenta and rabbit, the most delicious meal I will never forget. My dad would make the polenta and my mom made the rabbit. My dad would have this wooden board that he put the polenta on and my mom would put the sauce on top. We all had a fork and sat around this wooden board and made are way through this polenta dinner, we devoured this meal in no time.

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Polenta alla spianatoia ~ the most wonderful way to enjoy a communal meal. I can almost smell the perfume of the roasted rabbit. Was your family from Abruzzo, Marisa?

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My dad is from Molise and my mom is from Frosinone. The best meal ever!!

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My paternal grandmother was Molisana ~ from Isernia. Such a gorgeous region, so green and wild.

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My dad is from Isernia Pesche is the town he was born in.

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Pesche, in the hills? My cousin Trudi was married in the most picturesque church in Pesche. I've been wanting to go back ever since.

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Every time we go back to Italy I always go visit my mom’s and dad’s town where they were born.

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My 60th birthday lunch in Florence, buttered fettuccine smothered in shaved white truffle. The proud waiter brought out a plate of white truffles to show off to our ohs and ahs.

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Now THAT'S the way to celebrate a milestone birthday.

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Every meal I have had in Italy has been unforgettable! The ambiance, the quality ingredients, the care that goes into preparation, the entire experience of eating anything anywhere in Italy is simply amazing. We spent four years living in Munich and traveled a lot to Italy. Here are a couple of my favorite experiences:

Ristorante Osteria Casa Vino Consegna a domicilio - Vicolo Morette, 8/a, 37121 Verona VR, Italy,

Ristorante Wine Bar Bottega de Corgnan - Via Corgnan, 12, 37015 Sant'Ambrogio di Valpolicella VR, Italy

Since discovering your website and cookbooks, I've been able to create some amazing Italian dishes at home. I am pretty sure that I have everything that you have published and I've had success with every recipe I have tried! Thank you for bringing Italy to me in OHIO : )

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Hello Jeniffer, thank you for your kind words. I'm delighted to know that you've been able to conjure the flavors of Italy in your Ohio kitchen with the help of my recipes. I've not been to either place you mentioned, so I am putting them on my list for the next time I am up around the Veneto. Cheers and happy cooking!

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Ciao! Four years ago we visited my husbands family in Abruzzo. They live in the typical Adriatic seaside town- Tortoreto where one generation lives above the other generation. Our memorable meal was taken upstairs where the nonna lived. We first were shown how to make homemade pasta on a chitarra. A experience so memorable in itself. Then she had cooked all day for us and the meal was fantastic! We lost count on the number of dishes served but the best was the maccheroni alla chitarra with ragù. Same as your recipe in your lovely book- The glorious pasta of Italy ( which I bought after returning home from this trip/meal)! The generations eating together and enjoying the entire evening of such wonderful food and family will long be in my top memories of life!

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A home-cooked meal with your family in Abruzzo, what a special experience. I had to look up Tortoreto; it's a bit north of where i spent my summers (Silvi Marina). Hoping to explore more of the coast in the near future. Thanks for your kind words about Glorious Pasta ~ I think I need to write a book focused just on the food of Abruzzo!

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And then—see, I can't stop myself!—there was the time shortly after Costanza in Rome that we drove up to the Castelli Romani on Ferragosto, stopped in one of the towns where a man came out of a restaurant carrying a tray of roasted potatoes to his car. I suppose to take to the holiday table at home. We all kind of followed him, I guess, to his car, being lured by the aroma of those beautiful little potatoes, when he stopped and told us to help ourselves. We did! And then we all went on our separate ways. Only in Italy!

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Oh my goodness. That is fantastic! I'm not sure many people realize just how good the potatoes are in Italy. In Abruzzo, the best potatoes come from Avezzano, which are cultivated in an ancient lake bed (drained centuries ago) and the mineral-rich soil is apparently perfect for growing them.

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So hard to choose! Some from over the years that I still dream of...

A lunch we had in Lucca on a rainy weekend--in that overtired/over hungry state that happens when traveling, we stumbled on a classic trattoria/ristorante with outdoor seating under canopies. We ordered asparagus ravioli in a sauce of asparagus--something I never would have imagined before but was so delicious.

At cafe Cibreo in Florence, a whole artichoke served upside down in a baking dish of potato puree with a warm runny egg yolk tucked inside the carciofo cavity.

A thousand years ago we were in Naples and took a taxi out of town to Rosiello is Posillipo at my Neapolitan Italian teacher’s recommendation, and had the freshest swordfish (we watched a fishing boat pull up and deliver at the restaurant’s dock) served with cherry tomatoes from their gardens.

And from childhood, meatballs in my mother’s kitchen, just fried but before they were put into the sauce pot✨

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Everything you describe sounds unforgettable. That artichoke. We simply can't get decent artichokes here in Virginia. I don't know if it's the climate or the lack of a market. Your description of the meatballs reminds me of my mom's. There's nothing like that aroma of just-fried meatballs.

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It’s so hard to get decent artichokes here as well. I keep trying, then swearing I will give up, then weakening...

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Being introduced to aged balsamic vinegar at our b and b outside of Florence. Mind blown

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There's nothing like the real thing, as they say. It makes my mouth water just thinking about it.

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As others will surely say, so many wonderful Italian meals to taste again in my mind that it’s difficult to choose just one. On my very first visit to Italy so very long ago, in Florence, the taste that has lingered with me through the years, was of a simple bowl of fresh raspberries in cream. No raspberries since have equaled those fresh, sweet, delicious jewels of my memory. On my most recent visit to Italy in 2019, for a wedding in Napoli, we all dined in a restaurant where I spotted a dish on the menu that sounded good, so I ordered it. That was my first taste of Spaghetti alla Nerano, recently celebrated by Stanley Tucci. I was transported! I had to have it again before we left for home, and so I did. My attempts to recreate it in my own kitchen have not measured up to my satisfaction, so I must return, maybe even to visit Maria Grazia’s restaurant where it originated.

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I've had the same experience with fragole di bosco (small wild strawberies). No comparison to the strawberries--or raspberries that now dominate the fruit landscape here. Raspberries as big as strawberries, strawberries as big as apricots. Absolutely no flavor. I can't wait for summer and farmers' market fruit. And for zucchini, for that matter, to try making spaghetti alla nerano. Sounds like a return trip to Naples is in order for you...

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The best meals and dishes for me are those our family members in Abruzzo prepare for us when we visit. We lived in Biella, have traveled thru the Lake region, Liguria, the Mediterranean coast, Tuscany, Umbria and Marche and have experienced all kinds of wonderful food in each. However, it’s the family member’s prepared meals’ with simplicity and delectable flavors of the dishes that remain in my memory most of all. ❤️

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It's true; wherever you go in Italy, if you say you're from Abruzzo, the reply will inevitably be: "Ah, in Abruzzo si mangia bene." World class cuisine prepared humbly and genuinely. BTW I went to Biella for the first time last fall. I loved driving up in to the foothills of the Alps. And had the pleasure of trying canestrelli di Biella!

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It was a beautiful experience for us.

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So so many! But the one that comes to mind is eating mortadella sandwiches on pizza Bianca near the Cine Citta supermarket on the tail gate of the big black chauffeur-driven car I had when filming Eat Pray Love in Rome. We had gone to gather supplies for the shoot with my driver Walter and my assistant Walter (!). Everything was so warm and fresh and tasted so good. Plus we were hungry. I finally understood mortadella.

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What a cool experience! Have never been to Cinecitta. And I love that you encountered not one, but two Walters (Valters). I've been thinking about doing a mortadella post. I think this seals the deal.

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Yes, Valter! I didn't know how to write it!

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You’re correct; it’s spelled with a W. I just like the way it’s pronounced with a V 👍

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The chicken parmigiana at the Club Lago in Chicago. Same family owners since 1952. Now operated by 2 brothers. Old-school red sauce joint. Thin, tender chicken with great red sauce served with pasta. A place like "Cheers" -- they always know your name!

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When we are in Chicago in July we’ll give it a try. Thanks

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Paul, you have me craving chicken parm and it's only 9 a.m. Chicago is my favorite U.S. city, and I am putting Club Lago on my must-visit list for my next visit. It sounds wonderful.

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Good Morning. Club Lago is just far enough off Michigan Ave it doesn't see a lot of tourists. Tons of locals. Check out the web site.

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Hi Domenica, around 35 years ago I was in Venice (on a strict budget). We went into a small shop that sold take out foods as well as other goodies. I bought a potato salad that was layered with white asparagus and it was so delicious - I'm still thinking about it!!! Any suggestions on how to replicate that recipe would be much appreciated. It was creamy and very very tasty. Kathleen

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Hi Kathleen, I know the sort of salad you're talking about. My aunt used to make wonderful "insalata russa" (russian salad) with potatoes, peas, and other vegetables, covered in a thin layer of homemade mayonnaise. I don't know if it's anything like the salad you mentioned, and I'm afraid I don't have a recipe, though it's one I've been wanting to recreate. It's funny (and wonderful) how some dishes stay with us.

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Hi Domenica,

Having grown up in an Italian family in the UK, big bowls of pasta are the taste of my childhood.

I'm particularly fond of Calabrese dishes (which is where my nonna's side of the family hails from) and partial to nduja pasta with freshly cooked prawns and mussels.

No matter where I am in the world, every time I eat an Italian dish I'm right back in my nonna's kitchen, the food, heritage and history connecting across the years.

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Hi Jamie, I can relate to that feeling of being back in Nonna’s kitchen. Your description of the pasta with ‘nduja, prawns and mussels sounds right up my alley. I can practically taste it. Have never made it but I’m going to try.

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Glad I could provide you with some new inspiration. Finding new ways to enjoy pasta is something of a hobby of mine and taking influences from other cultures in my comfort food dish is a lot of fun.

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My experience is around how Italian our so welcoming when it comes to the food scene. In 2007 we were staying at Villa Pisani in Vescovana in the province of Padova, we asked our host “La Contessa” if she had a suggestion for a place for diner, she recommended Ristorante Da Marco and made a reservation for us. When we showed up at 8:00 PM the place was empty and we got a bit worried, but not for long because all of sudden several local families filled the place. We were 3 in our group and one of us talked a bit of Italian and combine with the fact we were guest of “La Contessa” we were received like royalties. Everything on the daily menu looked excellent and we told the owner that we had difficulty making a selection and joke that we wanted everything. His reply was stunning, he told us that he could serve everything on the menu in smaller plates with wine that pairs well with this bounty. This was one of the best epicurean experience I ever had, it was FANTASTIC. What was on the menu I do not remember but I could honestly say that it was the best of Italian food.

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Incredible. Even when the details fade, the feeling of such an experience remains forever. Sounds like a wonderful trip.

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I bet you share my memories. First is breakfast in Rome consisting of fresh rosetta and butter. Zia Gilda would buy the rosette fresh each morning when she went out to do the days shopping. Next is our first trip to Venice with mom and dad. We stumbled on a little restaurant for lunch and I had the best risotto alla pescatore I have ever had. Lastly is our family trip to Lucca. Our first night there we had a wonderful farro soup at a little trattoria. After dinner, we wandered through the town. It was a warm summer evening and everyone had their windows open. The first Three Tenors concert was on tv and we could hear the show as we strolled around Lucca.

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I remember all of those. The rosette, of course; even the little shop where Zia Gilda used to buy them. And the risotto! And farro soup. That restaurant was called Antico Ristorante Le Tre Mura. It's still there, right on the wall with the boulevard leading into town; though the last time I was in Lucca it was empty and there was graffiti on it. Which is odd, given how popular (and crowded) Lucca has become. Still a lovely city. I also remember an incredible seafood feast in Ancona with the Cantini family and their relatives. So many courses. And of course driving into the hills to look for arrosticini with the gang. Those were the days...

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Cascina Schiavenza is in Alba. Our traveling party happened upon it in October 2008, high time for truffles. Upon entering and sitting down, the waitress said the harvest of truffles was down and that she didn't think they had any. But she checked in the kitchen. There were some to be enjoyed for the first time in my life. Out from the kitchen came a plate of linguine. Onto its top the waitress shaved and shaved and shaved white gold. I must have passed out since don't recall a specific aroma or remember a specific taste, disappointingly. But, I do remember the sensation of slipping into a delightful food coma of an unfamiliar sort in which the world was even lovelier than it normal . . . . [http://www.schiavenza.com/it/azienda]

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That sounds about right. I feel like fresh truffles, especially the white ones, have that power; it's like everything disappears around that perfume. In your case, even the memory of the perfume LOL! Must have been good.

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Well beyond good . . . more like heavenly, celestial, an epiphany.

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Such a great subject! Thank you for starting all these memories. I'm still haunted by the artichoke focaccia I had in Venice at least 25 years ago. It was from a small bakery stand at the Rialto Market. The artichokes had probably been pureed and incorporated into the dough, and the bread simply topped with lots of olive oil and coarse salt. I've never been able to find a reference or recipe for this unforgettable little treat.

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Oh wow. I've never heard of this. It sounds out of this world, and worth a trip back to the Rialto market just to see if that bakery stand is still there. Thanks for sharing.

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In 1983, my mother and I were making the rounds to visit her various first cousins who had trickled from Abruzzo in the 60's to live in the Montespeccato area of Rome which boomed after the war. One cousin, Lina, lived "in the country" at the edge of a Rome address. As we were saying our goodbyes, Lina poked around in the grass of her front yard and picked a few scraggly green leaves. Mangia, she said. I wasn't keen on tasting weeds, but I had to take a nibble. Mmmmm, peppery I thought. Rucola, she said with an open smile and spread her arms to show that it grew wild all around her home.

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Completely different than what we find in the supermarket, right? Makes me think of preboggion', the mix of wild tender herbs and spring greens that are gathered and sold at the farmers' markets in Liguria; and also all the wild herbs that grow in the foothills of the Gran Sasso and Majella. Treasure.

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I am currently living in Italy. My most memorable food moments have been when I order and converse with waiters and shopowners purely in Italian. Whether it's pizza al taglio after hiking around Lake Bracciano (for a euro!) or showing friends my favorite spot for cacio e pepe in Testaccio. I feel closer to the food and my Italian roots.

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Sounds like you are soaking it all in, Olivia. Agree that the human interaction makes these food moments shine even brighter.

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Ciao, Domenica, so many memorable meals in Italy over the years - porchetta at street markets in Tuscany, a wonderful asparagus risotto! Best ever lunch though was in the Mugello, Tuscany at thouse of a lovely Italian woman called Evalina, a friend of my family there. I was newly married, visiting with my husband, and she invited us all for lunch. Prosecco and crostini to start with. Evalina's own-made tortelli di potate - up there as among the best pasta I've ever eaten, bistecca grilled over charcoal, a simple but exquisite sponge cake, light as a cloud. Beautiful food - deceptively simple, made with such skill and care. True hospitality. Decades later, we all still talk about this lunch!

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Deceptively is the right word for it, Jenny. Seems so simple but often not so easy to execute well. Thank you for chiming in.

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As a proud mezzo-sangue, half-Italian, half-Irish, I have had a lifelong love affair with Italian food, and those I shared it with. The Italian side of the family could be a little loud, but there was so much fun and so much joy. But when you posed the question as to the most memorable Italian meal I've ever had, the one that sprang to mind immediately was from the fall of 2019 on the exquisite Costiera Amalfitana, in Positano. A beautiful first afternoon there, I walked down from the Duomo towards the beach, and chose a restaurant with a seaview. I didn't go for any of the best known places, and it was late enough in the afternoon that I was able to get a table right along the front wall of the restaurant, with the sea to my left just down beyond the sand. What I ordered that day was a seafood marinara pizza, and a limoncello spritz. What made the meal so perfect was the pizza, just a delicious Napoli style crust, marinara sauce, no cheese, and a large helping of the freshest seafood piled on top of the sauce, much of it still in its shells. The day was perfection, and the meal was perfection, not to mention a wonderful limoncello spritz, my very favorite drink. I would go back to that place in a moment, and I hope to have the opportunity to do so, someday.

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A table with a sea view in Positano. Absolutely idyllic, Nancy.

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Hi Domenica! It’s Evie, I’d have to say a gnocchi dish at an old momentary near Bologna I think it was called SanDomenico. But the hay and straw your mom made was so so memorable. I made it with my girls this past Easter in honor of your mom and figured we had a lot of time during Covid. They all helped me, we made it over two days and they all Loved it!!! I plan to make it again this Easter.

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Evie, it's wonderful to hear from you. My mom would love that you and your girls made paglia e fieno together. I haven't made it in so long. Makes me think of our days at Stuart, and how she would spend weeks in the school kitchen there, making and filling containers of paglia e fieno to freeze ahead of the bazaar. Thank you for the reminder. I'm going to have to make it soon. Hugs to the family.

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Perhaps it was the lunch at, what we referred to as the Blue Bus Stop, a little spot across the road from the bus stop between Buon Convento and Montalchino. We stopped for late lunch and we’re told that the kitchen was closed, but the family was about to eat, and if we wished, we could join. The lasagna was layers and layer of paper thin pasta with minimal amounts is sauce it was so light, so fresh, but the overwhelming friendliness of an invitation to dine with the family….

Or then again perhaps the most memorable was cannelloni in the Piazza Navonna or maybe the lunch overlooking the Val d’orcha

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Where else but Italy would one be invited to join the family for lunch? Love it.

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In 1969, I was in Rome with some other high school students. We stayed in a convent. Our first night there, the nuns served us spaghetti, grapes, and Coca Cola. I still crave that meal!

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How did I not know this about you?! The perfect high school meal, too...

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Yes you must! I would purchase it as soon as in print 🥰 grazie mille

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A Mortadella sandwich in Bologna. 😋

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so simple, so good.

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For me it's the thin slices of veal with cubed potatoes that are bright yellow thanks to the homemade olive oil, which was also drizzled over the green beans made by my nonna.

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I've had similar meals; nothing fancy but everything of the highest quality and so, so good.

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Thanks! It was a fun evening for sure.

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Back in 2016 my husband and I went to Italy with our two children and my husband's parents. We were there for three weeks. One of our weeks was spent in the area around Lake Como. There was a restaurant near our house called Taverna Blu. We passed it every time we left the house, so one night we decided to give it a try. There were six of us and we showed up without a reservation (not knowing that one was needed). Fortunately they seated us anyway at a quiet back table, which was appreciative since we did have a two and four year old in tow. I remember being surprised that our "waiter" was also our chef. He was so very friendly and accommodating when it came to our two boys. The whole staff was very friendly and enjoyed talking with us from time to time at our table. Our meal finally came out and both my husband and I ordered the white truffle risotto. It was the best risotto I think I've ever had. Even our boys plain Pasta con Sugo di Pomodoro was amazing. That was probably the best meal we had the entire time we were in Italy. We still talk about it from time to time today and we all smile about how a pear fell from the tree above our table and almost hit my father in law in the head. Free dessert!

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What a great story. It sounds like such a welcoming place. The pear is the cherry on top (mixing fruit metaphors here!).

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Love that you’re doing this. While I’ve never been to Italy, sadly, I have experienced many memorable Italian meals, most of them in Rhode Island. But the best was a meal prepared by my friend, Carolyn, both of her parents were Italian. She served manicotti. The fragrance of the sauce and stuffing was intoxicating and the manicotti were handmade and like clouds, so light, so delectable. Best Italian meal I ever had. Her recipe was a family secret so, alas, I never had the chance to try and recreate that meal but that’s okay. I’ll always have that delicious memory.

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Those manicotti sound ethereal, and the fact that they can't be recreated makes them more so. My father was born and raised in Providence. One of my favorite memories is going to visit my grandparents. His mom, my "Nonna Rhode Island" as we called her, always had a pot of her homemade chicken soup with thin noodles, escarole, and tiny meatballs. Still one of my all-time favorite things to eat.

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I love that you had a Nonna Rhode Island! And her soup sounds divine!

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not to be confused with "Nonna Italy," who was my mom's mom LOL

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I could go on forever. But I'll begin with my first meal in Italy, in Rome, in 1992. Italian-American though I am, when it came to eating in Italy, I was as green as a freshly plucked summer zucchino. (A line I stole from myself in my first small tome.) My then husband and I along with our two young daughters sat down to our first meal at Costanza in Piazza Paradiso with Roman friends. I recognized nothing on the menu, so I asked our friends to order which led to a life-ever-after-that-long love affair with the food of Italy. Tagliatelle con moscardini e bottarga, rombo al forno con patate, and so on. I had never tasted food like that in my life.

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People are often surprised at how good the seafood in Rome is, but of course it's a coastal city. I'm not familiar with Costanza. I wonder if it's still around...

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Being Italian, and living in Italy, does not make me the right person to join this thread. What I can say is that it is fascinating to read your experiences and look my country with your eyes and memories. For me, food symbolizes treasured time with family and friends. In Italy eating well is a signal of respect for your guests, and for yourself, and probably the strongest common element for a nation which considers itself still too young and too diverse. I would have plenty of favourite food and moments to recall. I will choose the week end in which my husband proposed: we were in Florence, a place dear to us, having dinner at Cibreo. I always liked the relaxed atmosphere, the simple yet impeccable service, the elegance and coziness of the place. And the unforgettable ribollita, so nice in a winter night of February, and absolutely true to its origin.

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A proposal at Cibreo ~ how romantic! Thank you for adding your voice here. I think the big difference between the American perspective and the Italian is that in Italy people expect to eat well. As you say, it's a sign of respect for others and oneself and central to the way of life, as is time spent with family and friends around the table. Non vedo l'ora di tornare (alla fine del mese).

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My only trip to Italy was 30 years ago with the love of my life and our best friends. It was early November. We landed in Rome and the 4 of us rented a very small car to drive to Siena where we stayed at a farm that had rooms for rent. They grew olives and other vegetables. We had many excellent meals at several restaurants but this is where my love for olive oil began. We had freshly harvested olive with every meal. Lissa Mattson

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Fall might be my favorite season in Italy, in part for the lavish use of fresh oil on food. And the grape harvest ~ seeing all the small trucks on the road, their beds filled with grapes on their way to being pressed. It sounds like a great trip.

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The farm we stayed at was an agriturismo (sp). We were there for the olive harvest and grape pressing. Their wine was very high in alcohol and delicious. We all fell asleep at the table outside in the sun after drinking their wine.

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My wife and I were in Rome and a friend who lives there took us to his favorite local restaurant in Trastevere. The area was a mob scene, with lines to get into every restaurant. It was a blast. A 45 minute wait later we were seated in Tonnarello. What followed was the best damn spaghetti carbonara I could ever imagine. My wife, who suffers from Celiac disease, opted for the gluten free version. I couldn't tell the difference between her's and mine. Just a few days ago we were reminiscing about that meal. LOL

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Putting that place on my list. Sounds like it was more than worth the wait. Isn't is amazing what a little guanciale, eggs & cheese can become?

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linguine al vongole for lunch at a small trattoria on the railroad tracks in Ventimiglia...incredibly fresh, light, flavors balanced, perfectly cooked.....

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Love it, especially the railroad tracks. I have been to places like that. Linguine alle vongole is one of my desert island dishes. And Ligurian seafood is so fresh. I can taste this.

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Mid summer morning in Liguria, standing on the stone steps outside a tiny storefront, where I purchased a warm slice of transcendent olive oil drenched focaccia. In one hand the bread and the other a warm fuzzy skinned and oozing summer peach I bought earlier at an outdoor stand. Have never forgotten the perfection of that moment. Searching for that focaccia ever since.

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I also have a Ligurian focaccia moment! Transcendent. There is nothing like it. And a ripe summer peach, well, there's nothing better.

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Every meal we have had in Italy has been delicious. I can’t remember a meal that wasn’t flavorful and scrumptious but there was one bowl of soup I can almost taste even now after 6 years. It was lentil soup served in a restaurant in Venice called Hosteria Da Zorzi. It was the most delicious soup I’ve ever had and would gladly go back just to have it again. Simply made but exquisitely flavorful!

The best Italian restaurant in Philadelphia for us is L’angolo on Porter St off Broad St. It was recommended to me by an Italian. If you are ever in Philly give it a try but sure to make reservations a few days in advance.

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Thank you for the recommendations. Have put both Hosteria Da Zorzi and L'Angolo on my to-go list. Isn't it something, the way a dish as simple and humble as lentil soup can stay with you. I still remember a bowl of 'sagne e ceci at a small place in Guardiagrele, Abruzzo, from a few years back. And I'll never forget the plain, thinly sliced roast beef I had at an agriturismo in the Garfagnana, north of Lucca. Just roasted in its own juices with a splash of wine, but the meat was so rich and savory.

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A friend of mine suggested it might have been made with a bechamel sauce. What do you think?

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I've not heard of béchamel being used as an ingredient for a cold dish like a salad.

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I wonder if it's still there...My parents used to frequent an old NYC restaurant when they were engaged (this was back in the 50s). It was called Gino's and notable for its red wallpaper with zebras all over it (I think it made an appearance in Annie Hall or one of Woody Allen's movies). They took us a few times when we were kids. Delicious pollo alla diavola. It's been gone a long time now, but I'll never forget it. BTW I've been working on a recipe for penne all'arrabbiata, though I'm sure it wouldn't compare to the one of your childhood.

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Hi Domenica! I was actually thinking of Gino's also, but couldn't remember the name. When Maria and I worked together we went on a buying trip in NYC. She told me the story of the restaurant your parents frequented with the zebra wallpaper and we went there. It was a very long time ago, but I can still picture that wall paper and remember how charming the waiter was! The food of course was delicious, I remember the tomato sauce being very mellow. Maria and I had a great time and probably drank a little too much Chianti!

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Hi Roz, what a great memory. The good ol' days hanging out in NYC!

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Years later when Schumacher became one of my clients, I learned they made the wall paper for Gino's. After the pattern was discontinued Schumacher continued to print custom orders for Gino's when they needed to repaper their walls.

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Wow!! Too bad they didn't have an old sample. That was such a fun time Maria. Do you remember that I forgot to get a receipt and we went back for it the next day because Kathy Buchinski scared the hebegeebees out of me??!!

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I did not remember that. Fun times!

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pish posh is my new favorite expression. Will keep you posted on the recipe :-)

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